Relationship Q&A | Dry Spells + Couples Therapy + Jealousy

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  • Jenn Im
    Jenn ImVor Monat

    Happy post Valentine's Day! 💘 Ben & I are back for our annual relationship Q&A! We cover a lot of juicy q's in this one. Also we'd love to know what new personality trait you discovered last year.

  • Lim Doyeon96

    Lim Doyeon96

    Vor 19 Tage

    @Sharbani Bhattarai waking up at 7:01 am is a great thing to boost my mood.

  • Sharbani Bhattarai

    Sharbani Bhattarai

    Vor 19 Tage

    Omg my crazy ocd ass if driving nuts seeing her hair on her cheeks.Girl you stunning and that hair its everythingggg but the hair on your cheek omgggg i might die

  • Диляна Димокова

    Диляна Димокова

    Vor Monat

    @Jenn Im Thank you! 🤗 And thank you for all the things you do! You are an amazing person! Thank you for sharing not only the good parts, but also the difficult ones and despite that staying positive! 💓

  • Lim Doyeon96

    Lim Doyeon96

    Vor Monat

    @Jenn Im Jenn, I found out that the accident killed EunB🇰🇷 & RiSe🇯🇵. But I cried when I was 18 [in 2014]

  • Claudia Unger

    Claudia Unger

    Vor Monat

    @Jenn Im Do you want children?

  • Marie Auger
    Marie AugerVor 2 Tage

    I literally sent this vid to my bf saying "reminds me of us, please watch it" ahahaha

  • J J
    J JVor 5 Tage

    LOL always reminded of how similar Jenn’s and my personalities are

  • Olivia p
    Olivia pVor 5 Tage

    Why are you dating with old guy?

  • Julie Vantilt
    Julie VantiltVor 7 Tage

    When Ben explained your patience is like a battery 🔋 ... HAHA that’s me!

  • Gao
    GaoVor 8 Tage

    Love how Ben pronounced “lol” exactly the way it’s spelled instead of el-oh-el 🤣.

  • miywws
    miywwsVor 9 Tage

    This one made me feel better. I thought I was old finding my partner at 23 esp when I had been told women expire at 22 and stuff. We went through 4 month long distance and it wasnt too hard but it's been harder to come to the family that has a lot of violence, misogyny etc. In it. Communication has been a huge part of our relationship now as the environment has been so toxic.

  • Lona Nyusou
    Lona NyusouVor 9 Tage

    I can listen to them all day 😩❤️

  • ticklethehedgehog
    ticklethehedgehogVor 10 Tage

    Love that both of you are so eloquent and charismatic :)

  • Brad Kelly
    Brad KellyVor 11 Tage

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  • 59mmich
    59mmichVor 11 Tage

    Ben is so kind. What a warm soul. Jenn has such a pure heart! And her skin is FLAWLESS ✨

  • Ngawang Chodar
    Ngawang ChodarVor 11 Tage


  • Sofia Ysabel
    Sofia YsabelVor 11 Tage

    sooo adorbs 🥺❤️

  • Francisca Juan
    Francisca JuanVor 12 Tage

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    Brad KellyVor 12 Tage

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  • kriza clare
    kriza clareVor 12 Tage

    I’m so in love with your guys’ love 🥰

  • none
    noneVor 12 Tage

    If I see another Asian woman with white guy video I’m going to puke. 😂

  • Yenitza García
    Yenitza GarcíaVor 12 Tage

    So... we live in a 1br apt with 5 pets and intimacy can get a little annoying when any of our pets gets needy. One of our cats will start meowing at the door when he hears us moving around and so sometimes we'll just throw something at the door that will make him go 'O h sHiT!" and he'll leave us alone for a while. 😂

  • Zinniye
    ZinniyeVor 13 Tage

    I'm like Jenn lol. No poker face and no patience for long convos....

  • Julianna beltz
    Julianna beltzVor 13 Tage

    Love how honest you both are also congratulations on the baby! 💖

  • Ivon Sandoval
    Ivon SandovalVor 14 Tage

    2022 video: there will be three!!! So excited!!

  • Jane Huang
    Jane HuangVor 14 Tage

    Who's here after watching the pregnancy announcement? ALSO their outfits have a subtle yin yang vibe, love it 💕

  • sarah199677
    sarah199677Vor 15 Tage

    thank you for this video!!! long term relationships and living together can be hard, and the fact so many people don't talk about the rough patches and dry spells can make it hard and make it feel as though you're failing. Appreciate the honesty and the lovely video- you're a fab couple

  • Azuma
    AzumaVor 16 Tage

    this was seriuosly so JUICCYY

  • ybbamochi
    ybbamochiVor 21 Tag

    I can definitely relate when you said that Ben is the more sociable/chatty person who can get along with anyone and talk for a long time, while Jenn is more straightforward and likes to keep things simple with conversation. Yup sounds like me and my bf 😂 That’s his gift though and it makes him happy, so I can’t help but be supportive.

  • Avery Kinnaird
    Avery KinnairdVor 22 Tage

    Girllll I have no poker face and patience too!! I feel youuuuu

  • mysticmusical
    mysticmusicalVor 23 Tage

    Ahhh it's clothesencounters!! Took me a while to realized but I recognized your voice immediately. So glad you popped up in recommended. I took so many styling tips from you growing up. It's nice to see you're doing well 💕💕

  • Jade Fonteneau
    Jade FonteneauVor 23 Tage

    Loved this Q&A. I’m quite new to your channel so it was great to find out more about you, your personality, your couple.. It looks like you’re in a very strong and healthy relationship. 🙌🏼 It’s really great to see that you’re both very open and willing to put in the work needed to make your relationship last and blossom.

  • ShutUpStacy
    ShutUpStacyVor 25 Tage

    loved watching this video. thanks for posting and being so real. can see that you guys have put lots of work into your relationship. a true inspiration :)

  • Delia X
    Delia XVor 26 Tage

    I was smiling throughout the whole vid 😊😊

  • Brittany B
    Brittany BVor 27 Tage

    “I’m so romantic I referred to you as an it” LOL

  • Izzy Ok
    Izzy OkVor 28 Tage

    Down with wmaf 👎👎

  • Izzy Ok

    Izzy Ok

    Vor 24 Tage

    @utf 8 ewww another one of you

  • Anusha Jahagirdar
    Anusha JahagirdarVor 29 Tage

    No poker face and and no patience. That's 100% me! 😂

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    Hannah CarterVor Monat

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  • Isabella Masterson
    Isabella MastersonVor Monat

    please please please make a podcast

  • Nuri Way
    Nuri WayVor Monat

    omg your relationship is so much like my parents like my mom is straight forward and doesn't like waiting for my dad to say goodbye to everyone and chatting for hours w/ random people and I love that

  • Thuy-Anh Luong
    Thuy-Anh LuongVor Monat

    i love the way they interacting with each other. Cant believe that she is 31 already 😆

  • Damilola
    DamilolaVor Monat

    wow jenn is so so so so pretty

  • Renata Rena
    Renata RenaVor Monat

    You are such nice people

  • Sanne
    SanneVor Monat

    I am going through the most difficult time in my own LDR right now because it's been LD for too long, I guess.. so this video really, really helps :( thank you.

  • Riwa A
    Riwa AVor Monat

    Hi jenn it's been years since I've began watching your videos, I am inspired by so many personal talks and topics you've shared .. marriage friendship health or even reading... so glad that you are evolving .. really hope you are always doing great and feeling the peace we feel when we watch your channel ❤ love Riwa

  • Kathleen Dang
    Kathleen DangVor Monat

    Omg the question about what yall dislike about each other i can relate SO much my bf is so likable and social im kinda jealous but i feel like im always on the run

  • Isabella Torez
    Isabella TorezVor Monat

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  • Esther Perepechkin
    Esther PerepechkinVor Monat

    I once heard. Not just Communication is key, but communication and LISTENING 👂 ❤️🥰

  • Christine Tran
    Christine TranVor Monat

    You seem to be such a lovely couple 😍. Enjoyed listening to your answers and perspectives 🙏 thanks for sharing 💓

  • bubblelicious NIC
    bubblelicious NICVor Monat

    i love the respect for each other

  • Tyyne
    TyyneVor Monat

    What a great video. Thanks for being open and tons of kudos for continuing to work on your relationship! I’ve been with my hubby for over ten years, we also did long distance for a long time and it is work but so worth it when you know they’re the right person!

  • Marianne M
    Marianne MVor Monat

    I just want to give huge appreciation to Ben for embracing your channel in so many ways! :)

  • Mel thor
    Mel thorVor Monat

    OMG I am JENN 😂 I am sooo impatient! And I tend to lose my tolerance with people. Its soooo bad. I'm working on it haha

  • heydurian
    heydurianVor Monat

    When Jenn said "compatible expectations," my mind was BLOWN. Such a great way to put it - relationships work if we agree with what to expect! Also, Ben's joke about Jenn's top - " lint rolling it til there's nothing left - got me laughing throughout the whole video LMAO

  • Hannah K
    Hannah KVor Monat

    this was so cute

  • emily todd
    emily toddVor Monat

    i love this one xxxx so so helpful

  • Nancy Tampi
    Nancy TampiVor Monat

    awwwww this is too cuteㅠㅠ

  • Zahra Anwar
    Zahra AnwarVor Monat

    You guys are so cuteeee 😭😭😭😭

  • Oluwatayo Isa Daniel
    Oluwatayo Isa DanielVor Monat


  • Scoups08 Choi
    Scoups08 ChoiVor Monat

    Ever since quarantine started I've been trying my best to develop a backbone. I badly need one. And realizing that I can't be too much of an empath towards others but not to myself

  • Lorena Gutierrez
    Lorena GutierrezVor Monat

    Ahhh starting my day with y'all😌😌😌😌💓💓💓💓

  • Jessica Isabelle
    Jessica IsabelleVor Monat

    Jenn and Ben are honestly such great individuals, but together, they're truly a force of nature. thank you for always being so honest with us viewers! we really appreciate your authenticity, both the pretty and the ugly x

  • flowersehun
    flowersehunVor Monat

    i’ve been bens #1 fan girl since u guys met!! ur so lucky jenn :’)

  • Claudia
    ClaudiaVor Monat

    aiyo ben’s such a great guy

  • Laurence Rousseau
    Laurence RousseauVor Monat

    Omg, Jenn I am exactly like you - patience and poker face wise! It's so funny, because my boyfriend is similar to Ben - very patient and chatty ! haha

  • Isabelle Willemse
    Isabelle WillemseVor Monat

    Loved this video!!!

  • Shivani Gogar
    Shivani GogarVor Monat


  • Rayma Kochakkan
    Rayma KochakkanVor Monat

    jenn sounds like an aries moon

  • Julia Thiemonge
    Julia ThiemongeVor Monat

    Having been in a long distance relationship-- it’s never easy but with the right person i think it deepens a connection like nothing else. There’s a pro about being able to be independent and grow as individuals that strengthens a union. I love my partner even more all this time later because i’ve seen them grow with and without me and we were able to come together through all this time

  • zoe h.
    zoe h.Vor Monat

    You guys are awesome🤣❤️

  • yourfutureiscloudy
    yourfutureiscloudyVor Monat

    Yass this was just what I needed!!! It was so fun to watch too :) Love you guys!

  • Leak Ngel
    Leak NgelVor Monat

    You guys are the one true power couple. 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • Phoebe Phi
    Phoebe PhiVor Monat

    this shirt from jenn feels like she is an angel

  • Belen De la Cruz
    Belen De la CruzVor Monat

    This was awesome, thank you so much for this video, you have a great chemistry

  • Oda Maria
    Oda MariaVor Monat

    The answers to the last question gave me life today, you guys are the cutest 💖

  • Alexis Galang
    Alexis GalangVor Monat

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  • Rochelle Luu
    Rochelle LuuVor Monat

    awwww this is so cute! love these q&a’s. very honest and easy to listen to. would love to hear more from ben!

  • mkp 80
    mkp 80Vor Monat

    I adore this 🥰 the honesty in the vid is relatable- would love to see more this sorta content!

  • lieybeth l
    lieybeth lVor Monat

    I love how both of you looking each other, so connected to each other - apart the fact that while you recording you need to keep the eye contact to camera 💕

  • Jordan
    JordanVor Monat

    She was so beautiful and now so bad looking. Oh my god

  • Zubaidah Ahmad
    Zubaidah AhmadVor Monat

    The anololgy of oven and popcorn is perfect.

  • Thương Lê Thị
    Thương Lê ThịVor Monat

    Thank you for sharing those beatiful things. You two make my day. Hope that when I am ready I will find someone who are patient and generous enough to go through with me in every difficult moments of life☺☺

  • Sooyon Kim
    Sooyon KimVor Monat

    More of these please!

  • Pierrine
    PierrineVor Monat

    which myer's briggs personality types are you guys? :*

  • Aela Medicis
    Aela MedicisVor Monat

    I watch almost all your videos, rarely post a comment though... But damn this video is soooo nice!! You are both so honest and open!! thanks for this video

  • Ingrid Jeungsmarn
    Ingrid JeungsmarnVor Monat

    I’ve been following Jenn and Ben ever since their earlier days and they are literally my favourite couple. The way they understand each other, have boundaries, their openness about their vulnerabilities etc. really give me perspective as to what a healthy relationship should look like.

  • angelie esmele
    angelie esmeleVor Monat

    Thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

  • Jennifer Cork
    Jennifer CorkVor Monat

    Jenn!!! Where did you get your cute sweater?!

  • Sarah McKinney
    Sarah McKinneyVor Monat

    I have no poker face or patience either!

  • ijyoyo
    ijyoyoVor Monat

    Wow, this is amazing to see :)

  • Angelnes56
    Angelnes56Vor Monat

    is he a leo? Im a virgo and my bf is leo and this sounds like us where he is so chatty and I am not

  • Angelnes56
    Angelnes56Vor Monat


  • Shaq NMP
    Shaq NMPVor Monat

    the question abt getting insecure/lonely in a LDR really hit home but in a good way. It gave alot of insight but it also allows me to look at my own LDR. I just really appreciate you guys being honest and transparent about that part of your relationship

  • Shooky is a Cookie
    Shooky is a CookieVor Monat

    I love your top / cardigan... will you restock it?

  • It's Chezibelle
    It's ChezibelleVor Monat

    Ben is like the Agony Uncle of topics. I thoroughly enjoy these sit down Q & A videos and when Ben said "Sex on Tuesday" really got me hahahahha

  • Lily Rose
    Lily RoseVor Monat

    this little piece of hair look like mic :D

  • Lily Rose
    Lily RoseVor Monat

    I loved the video. You both are so cute. I am waiting to find my other half :) Also did you film a video about how did you meet with Ben ? I would like to watch that :)

  • Tiffany
    TiffanyVor Monat

    Love a libra / virgo relationship ❤️

  • Barbora Juhásová
    Barbora JuhásováVor Monat

    I love this couple, You are a perfect fit for each other. The battery level part made me laugh (cause I am the same type)

  • Noreen Husain
    Noreen HusainVor Monat

    bens a libra right? soooo libra

  • Ngoc Anh Nguyen
    Ngoc Anh NguyenVor Monat

    The way they look at each other makes me feel lonely😭😭

  • Ojuolape
    OjuolapeVor Monat

    I love how Ben has embraced this on-screen presence 😅

  • Ube
    UbeVor Monat

    Ben being chatty to everyone. That definitely has to do with being British, because I can totally relate to that!

  • 도종선
    도종선Vor Monat

    안녕 도희 보고싶다 이모가